Give Them Another Chance or Let Them Go? Here’s How to Know.

And this can be applied to all types of relationships.

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So, how to determine whether or not to give someone another chance versus, if this is the time to let them go?

Is This a One-Off or a Pattern?

Are They Open to Feedback or Defensive?

Have They Displayed Significant Behavior Changes Before? Or, Are They All Talk?

Have You Made Clear Already That This is Hurtful or Offensive to You?

A few other thoughts on giving another chance or not…

Consequences are a way of showing others what your boundaries are. Where your lines lie. As well as, a sense of valuing yourself and making that clear to other people.

So, to assess whether to give someone another chance or let them go, consider carefully the following:

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