Hot Bodies are a Dime a Dozen, and a Misplaced Priority.

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This comes at a cost to our interpersonal detriment.

Periodically, we lump a sexy body together with assuming a person to be more compelling, impressive, or “better” than others, simply by means of their sleek appearance. A “great body” regularly thrown in with other shallow, misguided priorities we tend to seek in potential romantic matches, such as “height” or “income.”

These are all transient traits, and non indicators with regard to the heart, soul, and character of a person.

They have zero bearing on whether they’ll be a great partner or not. Ultimately, they tell you nothing about someone.

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