In fact, life, our real lives, is lived in these moments. These moments are our life.

The “big ones” that everyone is ever striding towards (marriage, the house, a promotion, the baby, the vacation), these are generally good things. Some of them even beautiful. But spending your entire life racing towards them with tunnel vision presents major risk of a life that can go largely unlived. It can mean missing out on so much day to day beauty and richness, because you are so focused on the next big thing.

Fervent writer. Ravenous reader. Impassioned with words. Relationship researcher. Social Scientist. Social Justice Advocate. Author.

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