The Challenge Conundrum: Every Relationship Has One.

So where does your relationship land on the workable (or not) scale?

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The keys are: how often is it happening, what is the nature of the challenges, and thus, is it workable or not?

Here are some examples of challenges that are not likely to be workable over the long-term:

And then you have an endless list of challenges that are not uncommon and land on different spots of workability:

It’s a delicate balance.

Accepting someone for who they are, loving them as they are, while also sometimes promoting growth in places they could use it.

So how does one know where to prompt and where to leave alone?

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