There is No “Gray Area” with Rape.

There is no such thing as “gray rape,” or “ambiguous rape.” Rape is black and white, simple to define.

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There are several rape myths into which our culture buys and heavily subscribes to:

Most men do not find the thought of an unwilling and/or unwitting partner even remotely sexy for the reasons that should be obvious.

Rape is not a failure of “normal restraint” but of humility. It is not a “mistake” but a deliberate choice to treat another person like a soulless object.

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Fervent writer. Ravenous reader. Impassioned with words. Relationship researcher. Social Scientist. Social Justice Advocate. Author.

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