Why to Choose Wisely with Whom You Spend Time

In line with the theme of making of good choices to improve ones life, here is an oft ignored or minimized aspect of our lives which deserves far more consideration than we tend to give it. Its one that, on being more mindful and thoughtful with regards to such, can improve the satisfaction and joy of your life in major, significant ways.

What exactly am I referring to?

The mindful, careful, thoughtful choosing of those with whom you surround yourself and spend time.

First off, this applies to basically everyone in our life. Friends, romantic partners, and yes, even family. Because while you cannot choose to whom you are born or related, you absolutely can choose (though not necessarily without pain and loss) which family members you allow in your life and heart. Just because someone is your blood, even a sibling or parent, does not mean they are a healthy or good presence for you. For many people, they are. And sadly for many, these people are not.

You will need to choose, not necessarily what is easiest, but what is healthiest and truly best for you. All of this is of course, relative to the person, relationship, and situation.

With all of that said, how does one do that? Be mindful and choosy with regard to picking who they hang out with. And, why is this…